Light candles, watch porn, or engage in some good old-fashioned masturbation or foreplay to get there.

You can also get the party started in the shower together, which serves as foreplay and gets you both all nice and clean for the big show. Remedy this by taking a shower and paying a little extra attention back there to get it squeaky clean. When it comes to non-surgical procedures there is very little scientific support in order to back up some of the strong claims that will be made.
2. Reach your arm behind you and rest it on your back. It feels softer and fleshier toward the back. Simulated vibration. Any move that feels good can be sped up to the point of feeling like a vibrator. If you’re playing with sex toys, you can really mix it up by playing with the different vibration settings, as well as pressure and depth.
Mix it up by using different pressure or holding the press for shorter and longer intervals to find what works. Doorbell. Rest the pad of your finger against the outside of the prostate and gently press as you would to ring a doorbell. Circling. Use the pad of your finger and run it all around the prostate, circling your way around the entire perimeter of the gland.